Good Evening my beautiful self! So, I have been contemplating on starting a blog but not quite sure on how to begin a blog and finding a topic to blog about.. i was thinking of the idea of blogging about my life and each evening to write about my journeys in life that i am living for starters and at the end of each one have a little like life tip on what works for me, and maybe i will help other people by succeeding in their life.
I want to leave my mark in this world before my time is over, i want help unite everyone instead of destroying and hurting others, lets encourage others and help each and every one grow and achieve success!
You have to work as a team if you want to succeed on this journey of life!
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Well, maybe i should start by introducing myself to you all. My name is Melissa Amber Henderson, only daughter of mother; Leslie Tyerman and my father; Brent Eric Henderson. I have two brothers, Tyler Joshua Henderson; born May 30th, 1990. And Jake Eric Henderson; born April 06th, 2000. that would make me the middle child and the only girl, born on May 28th, 1993.
I was born and raised in British Columbia, Canada; in Vancouver, lower mainland and to be precise I did my childhood growing in Coquitlam.
We were lower to middle class family growing up, my father busted his ass to support us kids, he has worked hard his whole life and i totally respect my dad for putting his children first always and making sure we had eveything we needed, I feel like i should apologize for being the “shithead” kid who never listened and did my own thing most of the time. I wish I could have been a better daughter who made it easy for my parents but i wasn’t! But i wouldnt be the woman, mother that I am today if i didnt go through my own fuck ups and trials, because today i can say, that I love myself and who i am, I have grown so much in myself and have built relationships with my family, it finally feels good to finally be accepted and loved by my family, not saying that they never loved me but i always felt different like the ugly duckling not feeling like i belonged because i was different then my brothers, so i would feel inside that i didnt belong! And now I have a son of my own who I love very much, He teaches me everyday and hes only 4, the love a parent has with the child is irreplaceble, i wouldn’t trade it for anything.
My son is Isaiah Eric Harder born on September 19th, 2015 at about 430pm, with 8 hours of labor, one hour hard labor, the first time i saw my son was the most precious day i will never forget, i have someone who depends and looks up too me, it wasn’t just me anymore i had a little me to care for and guide through life so he turns into a well respectable, handsom gentleman!
I may not be rich or wealthy, or have fancy materialistic things, but i am Rich in LOVE, I have a loving heart and there isnt many things i will say no to helping and being there for my friends, and family, i dont have many friends now as an adult and on my own, but i have a few close friends who i treat like family just like my family.
I am quiet quiet and reserved, and i dont let people into my heart often until i get to know you and people get to know me and i feel comfortable with being myself around, then i am the centre of attention and the star of the show. I love to laugh, sometimes i laugh uncontrollably well often i do, but i would rather laugh and smile and live life happy and positive, then to just live life down and out and negative…. I make life enjoyable and make sure i live everyday like its my last day, and some days life gets in the way and it can be sometimes hard too be in a happy mood everyday, realistically there are days where i sometimes dont want to get out of bed; rarely but it does happen, but I do because my son depends on me!
I enjoy writing, love to write. I find that i cant get my point out when I speak but when i Write its like it flows naturally. I am an intellectual individual who loves to learn to new things and try new opportunities, you only have one life to live, so every chance i get to learn something new i take it! i am trying to live my best life yet, So when its my time to go i will feel accomplshed that i tried my best, with no judgements, with an openmind full of adventures and expiriences of a lifetime so my children will always remember mommy was always full of life and happiness and hopefully it gets passed on to my offspring!
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Well here is my introduction to the beginning of a new thing i am trying out! I have never blogged before so hopefully you guys folllow and read my exciting journey of life as i know it! thank you and God Bless Everyone on this earth! I pray for Good things to happem for everyone! We are all on this earth to be equal to all not above and not below SO LETS UNITE AND SEE WHAT CHALLENGES WE CAN BEAT TOGETHER for SUCCESS!
❤ Goodnight, I’m out! ❤
A Journey Through Life. 